What Is Blow Job Anxiety?

You may or may not be familiar with the term “Blow Job Anxiety” – if you are, you probably know what it’s about. If not, well that’s why I’m here – to fill you in.

Blow Job Anxiety is when you’re so worried about messing up a blow job, that you end up messing it up anyway. Getting anxious about doing a test, messing up a date or tripping over your own feet when you’re about to do a speech in front of a crowd of thousands is no different to getting anxious when you have a hottie in front of you expecting you to deliver on that promise you made of a mind-blowing blowjob. So how can you get over it?

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Firstly, if you’re not comfortable doing blow jobs – don’t do them. Simple as that. Some guys like doing it, some guys don’t. It really is that simple. There is an entire Kama Sutra filled with alternatives, so don’t worry your pretty little head about it if that’s the reason you’re anxious.

However, if you do fancy giving a little head, but are just worried on how you’re going to deliver the “I’m so good, I’ll cave your head in” blowjob, well that’s a little different…

Remember, anxiety is the number one reason why most people tend to fuck up anything that they try to achieve. Yes, sex included. There’s a reason why that hookup you don’t give a rat’s ass about keeps coming back for more and the guy you can’t get enough of won’t call you back, because chances are that you felt more confident during sex with the meaningless hookup guy and felt more inclined to impress the one you actually liked, which means you probably got anxious and messed up a little. Am I right?

Blow jobs are not rocket science. We all know how to suck, what feels good and what doesn’t. Basically you just need to work on that self confidence to get over your “blow job anxiety”. Do things you know would feel good to you, give a sexy glimpse up every now and then, and tease, suck, hold, etc. Imagine you’re sucking on a big, fat, juicy lollipop and you’re teasing the guy you like. Remember he’s just a guy and probably just as anxious as you are.

Talk yourself up in your head and imagine you’re in a porno. Imagine somebody filming you and you need to look your best and do your best for the camera (his eyes). You could make even the most quiet of guys “grunters” or “moaners” if you master your blow job technique.

Remember, you’ve got this. He’s just a dude, and that thing in your mouth is just a dick. No. Big. Deal.

#ConfidenceWins

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Contributor – Tristan Ridge

Tristan is a 21 year old, HOT, bisexual Australian surfer-slash-college boy who just loves the swinging scene and explores it with his partners in his polygamous relationship. He’s been part of the swinging scene and orgies since he was 18 years old.