How Can I Plan The Perfect First Gay Date?

How Can I Plan The Perfect First Gay Date?

It’s your first date with someone you’ve had your eyes set on. You’ve swallowed your pride and did the job of finally asking him out… what now? How exactly are you going to pull off this first date? You don’t want to pull too many moves and scare him away, but you also don’t want to seem completely disinterested. Brock is here to save the day(te).

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How can I plan the perfect first gay date?

Firstly, relax.

All you need to do is be a good conversationalist and all will just fall into place. Don’t talk about things you wouldn’t normally talk about and always ask a lot of questions about your date without coming making them feel like they’re being interrogated.

People love talking about themselves, so ask things like where they’re from, what they do for a living, what they like to do for fun – the basic information. Don’t get up in their faces asking things like how much they earn (for example) and don’t blab out your income or anything else that will make you seem narcissistic.

Another thing you might want to keep to a minimum is talking about sex. Don’t avoid it altogether, of course, it’s not a job interview. Just keep it light and fun, not like you’re there to find out what his hook-up rate is. If you really like him, also try and avoid sleeping with him on the first date.

Remember, people want what they can’t have and fucking him on the first date barely leaves him wanting anything else and he will probably see you as a hook-up whore, so keep it flirty, fun and mysterious.

Have a round of drinks and good food, talk like old friends, flirt and be sexy. Don’t get wasted, don’t overeat and don’t get crude.

Think about it this way – would you want to go on a second date with someone who could barely speak at the end of the night because he was so drunk? Or someone who was so bloated from eating that he had to unzip his pants? Or someone who kept making jokes in bad taste? Probably not, so why would your date? Everything in moderation.

Lastly, end the date with a flirty kiss and eye-contact and, for the love of god – don’t ask him how he thinks it went, because that’s just sad.


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Contributor – Brock Avery

Brock is a retired gay porn star.  He has worked for some of the biggest studios in the USA and Germany.  Brock likes to share his knowledge of all things hot and jock.  His passions are great sex and hard gym workouts